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6 Factors to Consider When Determining if Someone Is “The One” for You in a Relationship

8/2/2023

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To help you navigate the complex world of relationships, we asked six experts from the fields of business and therapy to share their insights.

Assess Compatibility and Shared Vision
One important factor to consider when determining if someone is “the one” for you in a relationship is compatibility. Assess if your values, life goals, and long-term visions align. Look for shared interests, effective communication, and emotional support.
Mutual respect, trust, and a willingness to compromise are also essential. A strong foundation of compatibility and emotional connection can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship. - Aviad Faruz, CEO, Know Mastery

Prioritize Respect and Individual Development
One crucial factor to consider when determining if someone is “the one” is compatibility, which includes shared values, life goals, interests, personality, and a mutual vision for the future. This forms the foundation of a lasting relationship. Yet, another equally important aspect is respect. Finding a partner who encourages your individuality and supports your growth as a person brings a sense of security and fulfillment to the relationship. Along with these, qualities like emotional maturity and effective communication skills may also be significant, depending on individual preferences. Ultimately, it’s about finding someone who aligns with your values and life vision, while also fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.
- Samuel Oku, Content, Samuel Oku

Value a Partner With a Growth Mindset
Having a growth mindset can be a game-changer in how a person navigates life’s challenges and adapts to new circumstances over time. A partner with a growth mindset is more likely to embrace personal development, communicate openly about aspirations, and be receptive to the changes that naturally occur in any relationship. So, when you find someone who sees the potential for growth in themselves and in your relationship, it’s a sign that you may have found a keeper!
- Loren Howard, Founder, Prime Plus Mortgages

​Connect Emotionally and Communicating Effectively
I believe a true emotional connection is essential in judging whether someone is “the one” for you. Being vulnerable, understood, and supported by your spouse is part of emotional intimacy. Think about how well the two of you share information, express emotions, and deal with stress when you’re together. I feel that effective communication improves conflict resolution and strengthens your emotional link. Look for a partner who actively listens to you, empathizes with you, and validates your emotions. Similarly, ensure that you can reciprocate with the same level of understanding and empathy. An emotionally connected relationship promotes progress, mutual support, and overall happiness.
- Cindi Keller, Communications Coordinator, The Criminal Defense Firm

​Build Trust Through Honesty and Consideration
​I believe that respect and trust are vital for any relationship to be successful. Consider whether your partner consistently shows kindness, empathy, and consideration toward you. Respecting each other’s boundaries, ideas, and autonomy is essential for healthy relationships. A solid bond is founded on trust. Consider whether your partner has been truthful, dependable, and consistent in their words and behaviors. It takes effort to build trust, but it is necessary for a long-term relationship. Openness and honesty are essential components of trust formation.
​-Timothy Allen, Sr. Corporate Investigator, Corporate Investigation Consulting

Examine Their Conflict Resolution Skills
One factor to consider when determining if someone is “the one” for you in a relationship is to see how they navigate conflict. There is no perfect relationship, and as time passes, we all have times when conflict arises. A person who is emotionally stable, able to take perspective, and can listen with openness can facilitate a constructive discussion on your conflict that allows both people to move on past the conflict back to connection. Thus, it is important to find someone who can address disagreements well. - May Han, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Spark Relational Counseling
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