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6 Childhood Activities That Helped Professionals Develop Life Skills

9/16/2026

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Our childhood experiences can mold us into individuals with strength and decisive life vision. Below are a few testimonies from professionals sharing their anecdotes where the lessons learned still resonate with them today.

Caregiving Shaped an Accessibility-First Business
The experiences helping take care of my mother (who became disabled) when I was around 11 years old. While I didn’t have to be the primary caregiver, since I was an only child of a recently-divorced single mom, almost everything else fell onto me. My responsibilities included grocery shopping, taking her to doctors appointments, figuring out on the fly which side entrance of a building actually had a ramp and which one was going to strand us on the sidewalk, etc.
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This experience helped me see how a system actually works for the person using it, not how it’s supposed to work on paper. When your eleven year-old self is attempting to assist the person they are closest to navigate a world that doesn’t accommodate their needs, you no longer view accessibility as a “checkbox” but realize that many individuals truly require accessible environments. This instinct has been the reason behind my transition from architecture to working digitally on accessibility in 2010, hiring staff who have a disability in auditing/testing positions within my company, and pushing against clients who want a one time repair of their environment rather than creating a functional system. If you’ve ever had to make a broken system work for someone you love, you build businesses differently.
- David LoPresti, Founder, ADA Compliance Professionals

​Bike Repairs Taught Patient Problem-Solving
Learning to repair a bicycle alongside an older neighbor gave me an education in self reliance. I was allowed to hold tools, remove a wheel, patch a tube, and make mistakes that slowed the process. The neighbor never rushed to take over, even when a chain seemed determined to resist adjustment.
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That patience mattered more than the mechanical skills. A problem that looked frustrating became a sequence of checks, tire pressure, alignment, loose bolts, and worn parts. The experience taught persistence and troubleshooting. It also made asking precise questions feel constructive, because help begins with noticing what is not working.
- Reid Breitman, Personal Injury Lawyer, Kuzyk Law Personal Injury & Car Accident Lawyers

Early Computer Repairs Built Debugging Discipline
Tinkering with computers in the early 90s before anyone called it “coding” was the thing that shaped how I think more than anything else in school. My dad brought home a second-hand PC when I was around seven. No internet, barely any software, just a machine that did exactly what you told it and nothing else. When something broke, and it broke constantly, you either figured it out or you had nothing. There was no one to call. The manual was in English and I didn’t speak English. That forced a specific kind of problem-solving, you couldn’t guess your way through it, you had to understand the mechanism. Read the error. Form a hypothesis. Test it. If it fails, start again without getting emotional about the wasted time. That loop is identical to how I debug a SaaS product today. When something in Pageloot breaks for a subset of users across 110 countries, you don’t panic and push patches. You isolate the variable. The seven-year-old me learned that before he knew what a variable was.

The other thing it taught was patience with ambiguity. Most problems didn’t have obvious solutions, and sitting with that discomfort without giving up was its own skill. I see founders outsource their thinking the moment a problem gets uncomfortable. The kids who grew up fixing things that didn’t want to be fixed tend not to do that.

Start early. Give kids problems without instructions. The frustration is the curriculum. - Siim Kostabi, CEO, Pageloot

Cafe Service Built a Guest-First Model
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Being able to serve guests in my family’s French cafe as a teenager. It may seem minor, but standing behind that counter has shown me a customer will decide if he trusts you in just a couple of seconds, and that recovering from an error matters more than avoiding one — correct it quickly, resolve it immediately and keep going. 
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This is the core of our service model here at Oakwell. We have built-in Ritz Carlton & Four Seasons style Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs) into a casual Beer Spa environment — what we call “casual Michelin” with a “3 seconds to wow” mentality for each guest as soon as they enter the building. - Damien Zouaoui, Co-Founder, Oakwell Beer Spa

Antiques Taught Instinctive Expertise
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The antique business was what I hunted from about age fifteen. I had a mentor that had been buying and selling antiques for decades. He never needed to check books (or phones) because he had everything memorized including makers, price ranges and rare pieces. If you didn’t know whether a piece was valuable the second you touched it, you were going to get burned and learn the hard way. That taught me competence means knowing before you look, not looking it up when something goes wrong. I teach my crew leaders to see potential problems like that door before they move the couch.
- Rob Rimeris, Founder, EverSafe Moving Co.

Chess Taught Long-Term Reddit Strategy
Chess. My dad introduced me to chess when I was about 7 and for the next two years I was terrible at it. That’s where I got my first taste of discipline (the ability to pick the strategic move that will pay off later vs. the flashy or aggressive move). I apply that same approach to working on Reddit. Since 2022, I’ve been focused on entering into threads with potential buyers who are already doing their research versus trying to ride a wave from a popular post. It’s the same chess board; just a longer game.
- Roman Sydorenko, CEO, RedditServices
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